It doesn't change the fact there are those who would rather focus on words than face differences in others. Whether or not they chose to accept these differences will and always will be a personal choice that no moderator can change. I have no wish to confront you personally about this matter, and I don't have to have the last word if you don't agree . There are many intelligent and witty listers here who might not say things just as I would or with words I might chose, but this is the reason why I enjoy(ed) the list. If I find someone offensive, I would consider it my own problem, not everyone on this list's.