In a message dated 10/17/2001 12:54:26 AM Eastern Daylight Time, creed7m3live@COLUMBUS.RR.COM writes:
I did not find the personal attacks towards Melissa to be in a sense of
joking.
I believe Keith was referring to my comment as being a joke, since that's the one Melissa freaked out about and felt the need to send me 3 emails about. No one said anything else that was said was a joke, and honestly, you use the word "attack" like we're stoning her or something. It's called a debate, as I mentioned before in a debate, most times things will get ugly, but the key is to not take everything everyone says to you so seriously. Let people have their say and you come back with a defense that proves them wrong as opposed to "whining" (which I use for lack of a better term) about how everyone is "attacking" you. Like Lisa said in a previous post, Love the person, hate the action, these responses were to her view on the topic, not to her as a person, I mean hell we don't even know her enough to make a personal assessment on her character, let along "attack" it. I mean why the hell take everything so seriously? Also something tells me this isn't the first time Melissa has made some "enemies" on the list, do you see a pattern forming?
Jess
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