Jess said:
Let people have their
say and you come back with a defense that proves them wrong as opposed to
"whining" (which I use for lack of a better term) about how everyone is
"attacking" you.
There IS no better term,
because whining is exactly what it is. And I've come to the conclusion
that on this list, if you don't agree with EVERYTHING that's said, you're
attacking whoever said whatever.